HJNTIY Theory

I am on an analytical mode after the last post.

Based on the “im not into you” theory, I deduced that Mr Movie Producer is definitely not interested.  

As for Mr Rock Star, I casually mentioned that I think he sees me as a rebound buddy. 

Yes I really told him that on BBM. 

The result? He immediately rang, adamantly protesting that I am not his rebound buddy and promptly asked me for a movie date.

We watched Eat.Pray.Love at 1130pm on a weekday (the same night).

He was dozing for at least half of the movie, and yet when he woke up he just wanted to know if I enjoyed it. I did. He was glad. I was on cloud9 – that is for approximately 12 hours.

 On the 12 hour and 1sec after that he went back into “now you see me, now you don’t” mode. His reason is that he is back in the Studio to cut a new album so he is v occupied now. OK. We shall see if that’s a reason, or excuse. If he’s into me or not. What do u think?

Mr Hotness meanwhile was silent for 2 days after I returned. Not a good sign. He should have been the first to text me when I arrive (just like what my ex did above).  Just as I was about to write him off as a spring fling, he texted me… “hope everything is fine there. Missing you here…J” He then went on to mention a few things abt having to concentrate on his final exams in 3 weeks time and being extremely occupied in the meantime. Ooookay. That’s another reason or excuse?

You may think I am being too analytical or cynical. I am not. I am just being alert to the signs. I am not clueless anymore, and I need to know when to stop daydreaming and move on. Don’t you agree?

Ps: in the end what the book says is plain and simple: guys mean what they say. If they say they’re busy it means they are. If they say they want to go out with you, it means they do. If they don’t say anything about going out with you then they don’t want to go out with you. Simple. If they love you they will tell you and you will know. So far nobody has said anything to that effect so I shall just wait. I will just add Mr Rock Star and Mr Hotness into my KIV list J

Xoxo